deciphering the days

I have bad habits. Of course, right? So do we all. But I think there are different types of bad habits. There are the ones that I know are bad but I don't really mind if other people know about them, like how I am impatient toward drivers who cut me off. And there is another type. The habits that do not make me feel pretty, loveable, or respectable - and I certainly do not want others to know about them. They are not detrimental to my health - at least not obviously, but nonetheless, I do not want anyone else to know. I am ashamed. And I do them anyway. I long to be beautiful when I am with others and when I am alone. Hopefully not in a super conceited way, but rather in a way that reflects the Maker's original design. I do not act with these 'bad manners' when I am in the company of other - so why when I am alone? I regularly yelp about the soap box of 'we should have enough self-respect for ourselves that we act in a becoming manner regardless of whose pre...

Let's face it, I consider myself a master of lists. You name, I can make a list out of it. I have a packing list, reading list, summer to-do list, recipes to try list, school assignment list, morning routine list, an extensive wedding planning list, a list of people to call, and the list goes on forever!!!! Making lists helps me to think clearly, organize my thoughts, and to quit worrying about things. However, the lists that are designed to help me 'rule my life' will occasionally rule me. All of my lists are self-imposed. There is no reason I have to get assignments turned in early and it really is okay if I feed my goldfish every other day because I don't always remember. But I sometimes forget that. My lists start frustrating me: causing me anxiety and feelings of incompetence. I stress about not getting enough things done or spending my time doing the 'wrong' things. What if there is a more efficient way to organize my day/list? I realize it the mos...

The third commandment, or second depending on the denomination, is written in the King James under Exodus 20 verse 7 as: "Thou shalt not take the name of the LORD thy God in vain; for the LORD will not hold him guiltless that taketh his name in vain." Growing up in my household that particular commandment meant that the children shouldn't say, 'oh my god' outside of prayer. As I got older, youth groups focused on 'matters of the heart' and 'deliberate thought.' The commandment came to mean that one should be so often focused on God that whenever one thought of or heard mention of God or Jesus Christ, one's thoughts immediately focused on holy things. I learned important qualities in both of these situations. First, I practiced monitoring my speech, and later I was challenged to reflect on what the name of God meant to me. And sometime after that, I heard an interesting perspective concerning the rest of this commandment. Sadly, I do n...

"I have a naturally peaceful nature," I tell myself. I am calm. I always do really well with the 24 or 48 hour 'technology free' days; my college psych/education classes assigned these and they're exactly what they sound like. Some people really struggled with the assignment, but not me. I don't struggle with technology dependence or multitasking. So I tell myself. In psych class, we talked about multitasking and how people say it's a bad idea and it diminishes their productivity, and yet everyone thinks they are an exceptional being who is good at multitasking. I probably do that too, but I'm not dysfunctional about it. So I tell myself. I don't think I even multitask that much. I don't often listen to music while completing homework nor do I work on my computer while talking on the phone. Therefore, I must be good at limiting my multitasking. Go me! So I tell myself. As many know, I am having recent struggles with Bible reading and pray...